Well, here goes. You know its true too. I am funny. No one cares, but I am... I make people laugh all of the time. I know you just said "AT YOU", but you're wrong. "WITH ME". you see I'm not one of these useless wastes of space that takes themselves so seriously. I think that one can not laugh at others until they laugh at themselves. And trust me I do enjoy laughing at others. I know you don't get it. You think "I don't take my self seriously" but today you'll get insanly mad at someone else because of their driving, or they were rude to you in line at the store, or because they looked at you wrong. Trust me, you didn't even enter their mind. They just were thinking about someother person. You are just another schmoe like them. You ain't all that important. However, you should be happy about that. Some folks are very self centered and either think everything is offensive or they think that everything that happens is just to spite them. My wife says I'm paranoid and that I think everyone is out to get me... she's wrong. I let her tease me about it because I think its funny, but it isn't true. Most people aren't out to get anyone because they don't have the time or the energy. Its very tiring being so self involved. It matters very little to most of us what our fellow man is doing 99% of the time. Unless they are your very close friend or your wife or kid, why would you worry about anyone else. BUT, we all think that others are looking at us wrong or thinking bad thoughts about us or that everyone is out to get us. Trust me, don't take yourself so serious, no one is concerned about you, but you. Here's the other thing, don't be intimidated by strangers. Why? Because everyone is pretty much the same. Scared that others won't like them, scared that others are thinking bad stuff about them and worried about what they are supposed to do next to "fit in". Give up! Don't try to fit in, try not to fit in. you aren't so cool anyway, or you are and it will just be natural for you to "fit in". 'A weak minded person changes his likes dislikes and views of things every 7 years' . Why because if they didn't they couldn't conform to society. Want to fit in, just keep changing what you like and believe every so often. Soon you'll be on the popular thing. No worries. But of course tell everyone you thought of it all by yourself. I like popular music, that's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about real things like religion, politics or how you like certain types of people and dislike others. People are not groups, people are people individuals. You can like one guy and dislike the next, and you should but don't change because its the "popular" thing. Don't change your mind on other stuff, unless you really really feel something differently. Be strong and don't cave in like most folks do. I mean, what if everyone changed their mind every 7 or eight years or so...wait everyone does. Why do you think we have a different political party in charge in our government every other election. Anyway... here's the five bullet point summary 1) everyone is the same scared and worried. 2) Don't take yourself so seriously, it smells in the bathroom when everyone leaves 3) stick to your guns, change when change is needed not just to change 4) Don't let others worry you, they are the same as you, worried and 5) Be who you like. Dont' be who you think others will like.
Later, "Like I hope that everyone likes my blog"
